Girlfriend's kinky demands thrilling but gone too far

Source: thesun.co.uk

A bloke writes to Dear Deidre about his thrilling but increasingly risky sex life with his girlfriend of two years. She loves extreme kinky stuff like choking, slapping and name-calling, which he enjoys too - until a recent session left him bruised and sore. He's torn between keeping the excitement and protecting his safety, asking how to talk limits without killing the buzz. It matters because lots of couples push boundaries in the bedroom but risk real harm without clear rules.